Me: Babe? Are you using me for sex?
Him: No, I love you.
My thoughts then: OK.
It turns out he was ALL bullshit. Another story for another time.
That was it! It all clicked instantly for me.
From that very day, I vowed to start USING men as much as they had USED me in the past. I refused to sit back while men had all the fun.
I had finally gained the confidence to turn the tables of masculinity while keeping my femininity aligned.
Disclaimer: Not all men are trash. But, whatever, these are MY thoughts.
Hi! I am The Single Siren and I use men for SEX.
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
I’ll try to keep this short and sweet.
Women are labeled as whores and heartless if we act in this manner.
I have found this to be quite exhilarating. Powerful.
Here’s my formula to mastering the fu$kery:
- Process of elimination. I am a very open person, so immediately, I ask questions that actually matter to ME and I state my intentions. Are you married, do you have kids, are you dealing with anyone? Do I care? To a certain extent, but it lets me know what type of energy I’m dealing with. Let them know what’s up at the beginning.
- Communication – I tend to be very bad at communicating, but I keep it short and sweet. I never call them for fun, strictly business (headboard meetings). This can go on for days, weeks, or years. I like to reach out 1-2 times a week to keep the feelers out for that impromptu f*#k message. Let them know I care. Hey, how are you? How was your week?
- The D Appointment – I am not one for meaningless conversation. We all know why we are here. Most of the time, I’ll get wasted and greet them with foreplay at the door. Sometimes, I even kick it up a notch and let him take me out for dinner and drinks before we do the do.
- Post D – I don’t engage in pillow talk. No cuddling. I graciously thank him and gracefully carry on. No excuses needed. To my surprise, some men actually find this attractive.
Considering all of this, some relationships are better as situationships… Not good enough to date or deal with all those insane emotions. BUT, good enough for sex…
Men and women use each other ALL THE TIME. Whether it’s just to text when we are bored or call because we are lonely, etc.
Women! If the D is all you are after, go get that. We don’t owe anyone our heart and you deserve to be happy.
Nevertheless, there’s always that one woman deciding in their head whether it is morally wrong or right to use men only for sex. I used to be one of them.
Let that $hit go!
Because I like knowing I can get what I want, when I want, and knowing that I can continue my life without confinement and attachment — no stress or complaints.
Am I wrong? Are you using men for sex?
Be safe and keep your peace.
Don’t wreck your “SHIP”,
The Single Siren
The Single Siren is an intro/extrovert and LOVES SEX, MEN, AND MONEY. She also believes in good energy and GIRL POWER. She is very open about her life and her sexual escapades.
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Find this blog post and more in July’s Edition, Ms. Heel Magazine.